Regular gatherings (whether in-person or online) with like-minded people is a necessary part of finding who we truly are and why we are here. We can all read books and watch Youtube videos, but sharing time and life-experiences with others helps us see we are not alone in our struggle. Other people on a journey of self-discovery, not only offer their vulnerability, they also help hold up a mirror so that each of us can see the fantasy self we can create.